Interaction With Strangers | Management Strategies
It may be helpful to try to change inappropriate behavior by introducing rewards for good behavior. If the person you care for attends an outing such as shopping, or groceries and is polite and well mannered, offer them a treat afterwards such as a favorite food or a trip to a favorite place.
If a behavior which you deem to be inappropriate or hurtful occurs, make sure that you do not react in shock or anger. Instead gently but firmly remind the person that their behavior is inappropriate. Whenever possible apologize on behalf of the person you care for to the stranger. After an episode has passed do not remind the person of the incident.
In the case of an uncomfortable situation or confrontation with a stranger, it is a good idea to gently guide the person you care for away from the situation, while speaking directly and calmly.
If the person you care for is avoid doing certain things such as shopping or groceries it may be because they do not wish to interact with strangers. They may be feeling embarrassed of their disease or afraid to make a mistake in front of a stranger. In this case, offer to go with them or have another friend or family member accompany them. This way they will feel more confident, knowing that they have someone to support them.
